Police….to serve and protect abusers.

8 Mar

So usually one of the arguments put forward about the need for police and calling the police is domestic violence and abuse. What people say is that despite what bad things police do at least they keep our streets safe for victims of domestic abuse and sexual predators. While I would not condemn anyone who is fleeing abuse to go to the police and in one instance recently i accompanied a woman to the police to file a complaint (the same woman I will be talking about in this blog) from my observations of how friends and loved ones have physically been treated when going to the police to deal with said issues in my mind it is quite clear that the police does not benefit the victims of abuse, and in many case creates the material conditions where they are more at risk. I will write a bit about what happened this morning to give you a brief glimpse into what I mean.

This morning I woke up at 5 45 am due to severe pain in which i could hardly move. By 9 30 am after finding out I did not have to go to court for a friend I decided to go to my friends house who lives three doors down. After taking half an hour to get dressed I made it over only to find out that the police was there ten minutes before I got there. Her ex husband who has physically broken her bones, beat her and tormented her for years called the cops in response to a txt response to his harassment which to my understanding was a fuck you. Since i was not there they had no reason to be nice or diplomatic so they showed their true colors as defenders and protectors of abusers.

Since this woman has moved to Kitchener this person has been repeatedly driving by her house, threatening her on social media,. harassed, threatened and stalked her current partner on social media yelled and honked his horn as well as yelling threats while driving by her house and has carried out a campaign of intimidation and harassment against this woman. She has gone to the police but was ignored. When i accompanied her once to the police station we were treated quite decently and they were extra nice, yet the problem was not solved (though he was given a warning). This abusive person’s sister is a Children’s Aid Society worker and a auxiliary officer and as such I believe is one of the reasons why he has custody of her child that he uses as weapon to wield power and control.

Despite all the documented assaults on her person and the many convictions of violence she was denied a restraining order in Hamilton court and her husband has custody of her child. Today for shits a giggles, like a true narcissist, he randomly decided to cut of all access to her child and all phone calls esp since she was going to give her son a Ibanez guitar for her sons which is tomorrow, and like a true abuser used this occasion of her sons birth tio create drama and not allow her to see her. Furthermore with his connections in the courts he put forward a change of venue motion to keep it in family court so that my sister, one of the few lawyers who fights against child alienation and is not scared of CAS cant defend her. In response to her txting back fuck you, the police showed up intimidated her, said she cant talk to her son at all and that if she writes about what happened on social media or anything would get arrested attempting to silence her.

Clearly she was devastated by all this esp because since the end of January when he found out where she lived in Kitchener she has been asking for help and getting none yet in response to one txt saying fuck you to this behaviour the cops show up swinging. After discussing about how we can get help and what we can do we went for a ride to chat and pick up my meds so I could concentrate.

On our way back we stopped by my house to see if there was any mail and their was a letter from a friend who was in jail. This kid was basically being physically abused by his court appointed guardian and despite this kid now being of age due to all the kid has been through and not having anywhere to go was still in this situation. Some methods of abuse include having his food and clothing locked up to be given when he saw fit, physical abuse and being passed around to him and his buddies for sexual gratification when he saw fit.He escaped and was staying with me in my basement, until my roomate answered the phone and was treated very badly by said fuckface who accused us of harboring someone who was a thief, the thing he stole being the clothing on his back. After discussion with my roomate we agreed that he could stay one more night then i would send him to a friends to stay there as he is not allowed at some shelters other shelters this person has peeps and as such is unsafe etc. After helping him out for a few days, this fuckface found the kid downtown and to teach him a lesson sexually assaulted him. The next day he started sending my quite a few physical threats despite the fact that the kid was not with me at said time, apparently said kid left some personal articles at my house and he wanted them back, in his own words i can show up with the cops or with my crew your choice. Given various reasons i decided to meet said person return said clothing pieces and say what I think. Basically when I met him I returned said clothing and asked if he knew who I was and a wee bit of my background, particularly my YO record, my previous direct action in community defense and anti fa stuff, he said he was well aware of that at which point in time I stated that any further physical contact or threats made to my roomate or anyone close to me would not be tolerated and any use of force directed to those I love will be met with as much force as deemed necessary as is my right according to the criminal code of canada under the subsections of self defense known as self defense of a third party. Still the kid couldnt stay with me and as a result resorted to shoplifting sleeping in stairwells etc doing whatever so he wouldnt have to go back to this. As I opened the letter and started reading I started to cry, he was in jail and as a poor person with no money or no where to go cant get bail and has the choice to plead to a crime he did not commit or wait in jail until his trial. If he is sentenced he is fucked, if he waits he is also fucked, The police of course know what the craic is , after all some of them are his friends. He wants me to visit him or at least write to him.

These two stories are just a thumb sketch of the bullshit people go through seeking justice at the hands of the court, two of the many examples of the need of the community to sort out these problems, the sad thing is that these victims of abuse are twice abused once by the abuser and the other time by the system. The final kiss of death, if you speak about it you will be arrested.

These two storys

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2 Responses to “Police….to serve and protect abusers.”

  1. KWcopwatch March 10, 2016 at 3:03 am #

    WOW ! how stupid can you get Doug? you support criminal activities by the police, CAS, Ontario Courts and the whole system, which makes you an accessory after the fact / a criminal.

    BTW: if you don’t like communism then you shouldn’t use the social services that came from it … like common law, constitution act of 1982, unions, pension plans, unemployment insurance, public works, schools, libraries, right of opinion, this internet, and rest of seemingly free or close to free services 😛
    … you’d probably be a totally uneducated idiot slaving for a lord.

  2. KWcopwatch March 11, 2016 at 1:41 am #

    WOW ! how stupid can you get Doug? you support criminal activities by the police, CAS, Ontario Courts and the whole system, which makes you an accessory after the fact / a criminal.

    BTW: if you don’t like communism then you shouldn’t use the social services that came from it … like common law, constitution act of 1982, unions, pension plans, unemployment insurance, public works, schools, libraries, right of opinion, this internet, and rest of seemingly free or close to free services 😛
    … you’d probably be a totally un-educated idiot slaving for a lord.

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